I did many wonderful things this week, I laughed often, appreciated my excellent fortune of where and how we live, had enjoyable and enlightening times outdoors, indoors, in conversation and while contemplating.
Somewhere along the line in the past years or so, I think, I must have figured out that I want to have all that (above) despite the ongoing ill-health issues. After a while, it's either giving in and breaking into pieces or getting on with it, sort of.
When I had the three sessions with the clinical nutritionist earlier this year, I was introduced to the proper way of recording food intake, its positive and negative results and why. At first, I found it tedious and thankfully, I only need to do this for 2-3 days every so often to keep on track, but in hindsight, it makes sense and yes, shows some sort of cause and effect.
Anyway, the barium paste seems to have left the body and the bad days are not quite as bad which gave me enough energy to go for another long hillwalk with the man.
We started with a short steep climb to a 11th century castle ruin.
and proceeded through dense forest in gorgeous autum colours
and found a small cemetery from the middle ages
some excellent views once we got up high
and a soft path with thick gorse bushes on the way down
with plenty of mushrooms
On Thursday was Samhain, one of the Celtic quarter days better known as Halloween and wrongly described as a US custom. I don't mind, really. It's slowly arriving here too but the few kids we saw running around were basically just after bags of sweets.
We built a small fire in the fire bowl on the patio and R talked about the Samhain rituals of his Irish childhood which involved apples and nuts and bairín breac (barmbrack) and much scary laughter and story telling. Athough he grew up in middle class suburbian Dublin, the ancient folklore traditions were part of his life. It was around this time of the year, when I first arrived in R's family and I had No Idea. Especially when the barmbrack was served and my slice miraculously contained the much cherished ring. A barmbrack is a sweet raisin bread that is used for fortune telling (more here). I also thought the entire family was slightly mad when we proceeded to do the weird thing with apples in a bucket of water.
This here is a lengthy but enjoyable podcast episode put together by the National Folklore Collection of the University College of Dublin explaining and celebrating the Samhain origins of Halloween:
Folklore is a beautiful way for us to connect with our local landscape—our own natural environment—through the symbols and stories and narratives that are told about it. I think there’s a tendency nowadays to look at these things in terms of “They may be a bit twee,” or “They’re slightly footy because they’re so odd,” or “Ha-ha, who could take those silly things seriously?” But I think they should be afforded much more dignity. So much of this has been distilled through countless generations. The contemporary experience of modernity that we’re passing through now is a sort of restless discord, a feverish hand-wringing. And these structures—whether fairy lore or ritual or belief or custom found in our traditional practices—hold a lot of joy, profanity, wit, wisdom, humor, darkness, even, which is useful. They’re meaningful, they orient us, they ground us. They can help us move from disenchantment to enchantment with the world around us. When you look out across a landscape, it’s not just some bleak void—there’s a mystery and depth and richness to it. Suddenly, there’s a flash of the fantastic into the ordinary, into the everyday.
Jonny Dillon (archivist of the National Folklore Collection at the University College of Dublin)
you do live in a beautiful place. would that I could walk out my door and into such beauty but to do that I would have to pull up stakes and move far from my family. glad to hear you are feeling somewhat better.
ReplyDeleteimmigrants brought all their lovely folklore when they came and as America does, it got bastardized.
I am 73 and in my early teen years, we routinely bobbed for apples at parties. I did not know, of course, of its origin outside of US Halloween traditions, so I appreciate the information! It's funny how traditions are kept, even if slightly askew from the origins.
ReplyDeleteNina
"When you look out across a landscape, it’s not just some bleak void—there’s a mystery and depth and richness to it."
ReplyDeleteEmotional landscape, too.
Happy to hear that you and R have been out walking in the beauty of this time of year. It's good for my heart to see those vast landscapes. Lots of mushrooms here as well.
Such beautiful photos of your walk, I especially like the toadstools. Bobbing for apples was an annual Halloween activity when I was a child. I always had to keep a careful eye out for big brother in case he tried to give me a ducking! I laughed at you saying you thought the family was slightly mad!
ReplyDeleteSuch lovely photos of your walk, I especially like the toadstools, very suitable for Halloween! We used to bob for apples when I was a child, keeping an eye out for my brother so that I didn't get a ducking! Halloween was a simple affair then, mostly involving scaring ourselves with scary, spooky stories. These days it has gone the American way as a good excuse to sell merchanise!
ReplyDeleteI'm happy to read that you are enjoying yourself.
ReplyDeleteAs I understand it, the first religions had their roots, so to speak, in agriculture. All the things that people noticed and learned about the forces that governed the successful growing and harvesting of food. As we've grown farther and farther away from that knowledge, so have our religions come farther and farther away from having any relationship to how they started out, distilled down to rituals that really only have meaning in their familiarity. It is good to know that some cultures still practice some of the original rites.
ReplyDeleteWhat beautiful photos. You live in a beautiful part of the world. The pagans had it right, separating the year into manageable portions of six or seven weeks, with something to celebrate. We don't celebrate often enough. I know I don't at least.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad the barium has departed and left your bowels slightly more at peace:)