21 October 2016

it is time for this

History will record that this was the decade when women owned funny. Or anyway drink this:
They lean in with the ingredients that they have been gathering for days, for years, to make the potion potent.
Eye of newt. Wool of bat. Woman cards, both tarot and credit. Binders. Lemons. Lemonade. Letters to the editor saying that a woman could not govern at that time of month — when in fact she would be at the height of her power and capable of unleashing the maximum number of moon-sicknesses against our enemies, but the nasty women do not stoop to correct this.
They drop in paradoxes: powerful rings that give you everything and keep you from getting the job, heels that only move forward by moving backward, skirts that are too long and too short at the same time, comic-book drawings whose anatomy defies gravity, suits that become pantsuits when a woman slips them on, enchanted shirts and skirts and sweaters that can ask for it, whatever it is, on their own. They take the essence of a million locker rooms wrung out of towels and drop it in, one drip at a time. Then stir.
They sprinkle it with the brains of the people who did not recognize that they were doctors, pepper it with ground-up essays by respected men asking why women aren’t funny, whip in six pounds of pressure and demands for perfection. They drizzle it with the laughter of women in commercials holding salads and the rueful smiles of women in commercials peddling digestive yogurts. They toss in some armpit hair and a wizened old bat, just to be safe. And wine. Plenty of wine. And cold bathwater. Then they leave it to simmer.
And they whisper incantations into it, too. They whisper to it years of shame and blame and what-were-you-wearing and boys-will-be-boys. They tell the formless mass in the cauldron tales of the too many times that they were told they were too much. Too loud. Too emotional. Too bossy. Insufficiently smiling. The words shouted at them as they walked down the streets. The words typed at them when their minds traveled through the Internet. Every concession they were told to make so that they took up less space. Every time they were too mean or too nice or shaped wrong. Every time they were told they were different, other, objects, the princess at the end of the quest, the grab-bag prize for the end of the party.
They pour them all into a terrible and bitter brew and stir to taste.
It tastes nasty. It is the taste of why we cannot have nice things, and they are used to that.

Perhaps if the potion works, they will not have to be.
The nasty women have a great deal to do before the moon sinks back beneath the horizon.
But that is all right. They know how to get things done.

Alexandra Petri 

7 comments:

Ms. Moon said...

Amen.

Colette said...

"Women cards, both tarot and credit." Ha! Nasty post, I will read it repeatedly. Little did that jerk realize the women of the world were going to rise up angry once again, this time to own that word.

am said...

Thank you so much for this, Sabine. Good moon rising. When I asked the young woman at the bookstore counter what was the best book she had ever read. She said, "The Bad Feminist."

https://www.ted.com/talks/roxane_gay_confessions_of_a_bad_feminist?language=en

So much light that we cannot see. I love these young women who speak so eloquently with gravity and levity, and I hope to be a good example for them as I navigate the years of being an old woman who is young at heart, who can encourage young women to be themselves and thrive.

Anonymous said...

There was a delightful image on Facebook yesterday. It was two hands pressed together, and it said "'Nanaste'-- The nasty woman in me recognizes the nasty woman in you." Amen.

Zhoen said...

I want to think that all this bile will lead to lancing of a boil too long neglected and fulminant.

Elizabeth said...

So cool.

liv said...

Ms. Petri hit the nail on the head.