30 March 2026

between a rock and a hard place

Greetings from the stranded beetle.

The post OP cast has been removed, revealing impressive bruising and nicely healed stitches.

(Don't look if you are of the squeamish type.)

There is an equally impressive surgical suture on the other side of the foot. Inside is a shitload of metal.

And this is the new cast, I had a choice of black or pink.


And so I am now counting down the days (28) until this rock solid beauty will be removed and I can - hopefully - progress to a moon boot and some form of walking. For now, imagine me bum crawling and one-leg hopping with various helpful contraptions, twisting and turning my way from chair to walker to knee-scooter, wriggling my toes per instructions and doing a silly looking work-out to look after muscles and strength - if the dog lets me since he remains ever hopeful that I will just get up and do the stuff he thinks this granny should do and jumps for joy ontop of me when I lift my good leg and my arms.
 
This is the good story, the health recovery story. And I am feeling hopeful.
 
And then there's the rock and the hard place scenario.
 
I am in my daughter's home, I am looked after with love and care and all the attention I could wish for. I could stay here until I can use both legs at least in a way that will make it possible for me fly back home on my own  (33 hrs, two stop-overs). We think hope I will reach this stage by mid June the latest. That's one option.
 
The other option is that R comes here (yes, he remained at home in Germany for too many reasons to explain) and we both return together earlier than June with him as my travel support, probably mid May.
 
And then there are these factors to consider:
 
  • daily, in fact hourly increasing airline ticket prices, especially on the best long-haul route via Singapore (the safest and "shortest" route for travel between Europe and NZ and Australia and SE Asia), I will definitely not fly via US for reasons and via Canada or Japan/Korea/China will take several days and while we are not poor, it irks and feels dramatic at the same time
  • as airlines react to jet fuel shortages, flights have been cancelled already, especially on this route and booked tickets have gone into the nirvana
  • once my renewed visitor visa has been approved, I will be able to stay until end of June without a chance to renew it - unless WWIII breaks out
  • I will be running out of my immune suppressing medication by mid June, and as even world wide courier services are affected by reduced flight options and jet fuel prices/shortage, no guarantee of getting it in time and no it's not easily available here
  • while all treatment costs of the fracture are picked up by NZ accident compensation, my international health insurfance cover for anything else that may hit me health-wise will run out by mid June
 
So we are back and forth throwing the dice and no doubt, we'll come up with something. We've lived this across-the-world life for long enough to trust that there will be a way. 
To be continued.
 
 
 
 
 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 

2 comments:

  1. Your surgeon did a nice job with the incision and the sutures. They look very nice and tidy.
    I didn't realize your husband had gone back home already. So many questions and so many decisions to make before you get home. I must so though that the decision to get a pink cast was an excellent decision. It's very pretty.
    It's a good thing you had extra immunosuppressive drugs to last through the injury and subsequent healing.
    I hope things go well.

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  2. I forgot to tell you that Jack has fifth disease and I wouldn't have realized if you hadn't mentioned it. My training was so long ago, I had forgotten about it. That's what he was sick with last week I guess. The rash on his face just showed up yesterday, so thank you.

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